The National Association of School Phychologists

School memorials, ceremonies or memory activities following a traumatic experience serve an important function in the healing process for both students and staff. Such activities provide the opportunity to express emotions through a variety of ways besides talking. In addition, a school memorial helps to bring closure to a period of grieving and serves as a point from which to move on with regular school activities. Memorial activities can take many forms, from tree planting or writing letters and cards, to more traditional "services." It is best to plan a variety of activities rather than only one "big" event; some students will be more comfortable, and more comforted by, one activity versus another. Providing a range of opportunities to express feelings is essential.

The National Association of School Phychologists have created Memorials, Activities, & Rituals for Schools Following Tramatic Events, for free ideas and potential activies, and A National Tragedy: Helping Children Cope.